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    November 13

    Out of Your League

    When I was growing up in Hong Kong, I attended an all-girls Catholic school. Located right next door was an all-boys school. With nearly 3,000 girls and boys located in such close proximity, you'd expect a lot of "stuff" going on between the people in the two schools, right? But nothing can be further from the truth. I have never heard of anyone from our school having an interest in, much less dating, one of the boys from the other school.
     
    The reason? We consider ourselves way out of their league.
     
    You may think it strange that girls aged 13 to 18 would be such snobs or understand such concepts as "social class". But it was in us. We knew.
     
    You see, ours was (and still is) a prestigeous school. Theirs was, should we say, less prestigeous.
     
    One only has to look at the two schools' respective pages on the HK Education and Manpower Bureau website. Whereas our school's page features a picture of a student playing the piano and another playing the cello, their school's page features a bunch of students playing rock paper scissors.
     
    The boys knew what we thought of them (and how little we thought of them). So they try to get our attention by throwing dusters at our girls from their classrooms they passed by on the way to the bus stop.
     
    Instead of shrieking and running away, the girls stood their ground, counted the number of floors and windows to identify the classroom from which the attack had came from, and collected the dusters as evidence. Our school filed a complaint and several boys received reprimands.
     
    We were mean girls, even back then.
    November 11

    Remembrance Day NOT Holiday in Ontario

    I think it's ridiculous that Remembrance Day is not a holiday in Ontario. Of all the secular stat holidays, I think this is without a doubt the most important one. Why do we celebrate Victoria Day and the nameless "civic holiday" in August but not Remembrance Day?!
     
    The only other province that has not designated Remembrance Day as a public holiday is Quebec. I say let them be the "distinct society" on this one.
     
    Let us remember the veterans who fought for this country and for the freedom of men and women everywhere.
     
     
     
     
    November 03

    Concubine Hello Kitty

    Prince Tomohito of Japan has a bright idea: let's bring back concubines! That's a better idea than to let Princess Aiko succeed her father Emperor Akihito, who has no male child.
     
    Chorus of men: Us too! Us too!
     
    Concubines? I'm sure that it's a fine idea in Prince Tomohito's mind. But, that is not going to help baby production if it is the men who are sterile, is it?
     
    Hier production is merely a pretext. Japanese men like Prince Tomohito want to keep women in their traditional role as baby-machines and out of positions of authority / respect / ceremonial importance such as the throne.
     
    And I suppose if the desire to protect "unique tradition and history" is a good enough reason to devalue women, it is a good enough reason for Prime Minister Junichiro Koizumi's annual worship of Japanese war criminals at Yasukuni Shrine.
     
    Such is Japanese tradition and history. My condolescences.
     

     

    Japanese Prince Wants Women Kept Off Throne

    Thursday, November 3, 2005 Posted at 3:25 AM EST

    Associated Press

     
    Tokyo — Japan should exhaust all other options before allowing a woman to ascend to its imperial throne, including adoptions and bringing back concubines, Emperor Akihito's cousin said in a newsletter obtained Thursday.

    With the Chrysanthemum Throne facing a severe succession crisis -- Japan's imperial family has not produced a male heir in 40 years -- a government panel agreed last month to propose allowing women to reign. Crown Prince Naruhito and Crown Princess Masako have one child, a three-year-old daughter named Aiko.

    But Prince Tomohito, Emperor Akihito's cousin, said old traditions, such as allowing concubines, should be revived instead.

    “We should try various other ways first,” before allowing female monarchs, Prince Tomohito wrote in an essay published in a newsletter circulated among staff of the Imperial Household Agency.

    “The question is whether it is a right thing to change the unique tradition and history so easily.”

    Tomohito is the eldest cousin of Japanese Emperor Akihito and is fifth in line for succession to the Chrysanthemum Throne.

    His comment appeared in the Sept. 30 newsletter, the latest edition of the quarterly, which is not sold, said Koji Okubo, an Imperial Household Agency staff member at the prince's residence.

    In the essay, Sea Lion's Chat, Tomohito suggested bringing back male royals who were forced from the old aristocracy after the Second World War, allowing adoption of sons of former royals, or reviving a system in which the sons of concubines were allowed to ascend the throne.

    “Using concubines, like we used to, is also an option. I'm all for it but this might be a little difficult considering social climate in and outside the country,” Tomohito wrote, noting both the father and grandfather of his uncle, the late emperor Hirohito, were sons of concubines.

    Under the 1947 Imperial Household Law, only males who are descended from emperors on their father's side can succeed to the throne. Under that law, neither Princess Aiko nor her future children can ascend the throne.

    The royal family is prohibited from interfering in politics under Japan's Constitution and they have no say over the panel's discussions.

    Mr. Okubo said he did not know whether Tomohito wrote the statement to represent members of the royal family, or whether he planned to submit his proposals to the government panel.

    In July, the panel compiled an interim report suggesting as options a legal change to allow a female monarch or to bring back members of the old aristocracy -- or their offspring -- who were forced from the imperial household in 1947 after Japan's defeat in the war.

    The idea of allowing a woman to take the throne has broad popular support in Japan.

    November 02

    IQ test should be required for drivers

    Almost got ran over by a
     
    person with an IQ of 69 
     
    driving a
     
    4-door silver Volkswagen Golf
     
    bearing Ontario license plate
     ALLN 247
     
    at the crosswalk at Harbord and Major Streets in Toronto.
     
    After turning left (North) onto Major Street s/he took a right onto Sussex Street.
     
    The Streetcar stopped to let us cross at the crosswalk. This asshole in his base model Golf was a few cars behind the streetcar and decided s/he was too cool to wait his/her turn to make a left turn. So s/he sped onto the opposite lane and drove the 1/4 block on the wrong side of the road in order to turn left onto Major Street as we were crossing.
     
    S/he was lucky that s/he did not hit us. After we're done with him/her, s/he'll be lucky to still own that car and would probably never be able to afford auto insurance again.